With our lives being busy and hectic, we tend to neglect the little things in life. For me, it’s the aloe plant on my balcony. Those things are hard to kill but somehow, I have managed to neglect my poor little gooey plant to the point of a pitiful, drooping, sad looking little thing. For others, it may be throwing out last week’s take out that’s been sitting in the fridge. Other times, we tend to subconsciously neglect the people who mean the most to us. Forgetting to call our family members is easy to do. Often times, we don’t even think about picking up the phone for anything other than checking e-mails or Facebook.
My mom and I mostly use Facebook’s messenger app to communicate. Phone calls have become a type of old school form of communication. Nevertheless, phone calls can definitely make someone’s day. Especially our grandparents, bless their hearts, most grandparents wouldn’t know how to operate a cell phone if it came with a step-by-step tutorial. The first time my grandma sent me a text, she signed it at the bottom like a letter.
If we could take a minute or two out of our days to occasionally call a family member, one might be surprised at how much a short, simple conversation can lift a mood; especially on a special occasion.
Use an Address Book
Who really uses address books anymore, right? Well it doesn’t have to be a pen and paper kind of address book, you can just as easily use your cell phone’s contact list.
Keeps the names and numbers of all of your family members together in one place; this could be on the same page or two of your prehistoric pen and paper address book or in a group you can create in your cell phone’s contact list. Along with the names and numbers, keep a record of everyone’s birthdays and anniversaries. You could also create reminders in your phone for these special occasions or write it on an actual calendar if you, like me, appreciate such vintage means of date keeping.
A quick phone call on gran and gramp’s 54th anniversary is sure to bring a smile and plenty of joy to everyone involved; especially if gran can’t figure out how to put the phone on speaker.
Call Just to Say Hi
We all have our down days. Sometimes we need a pick-me-up. However, we never seem to think about others having a bad day unless they actually tell us or we see the frustration on their face in person. If I’m having a bad day, I like to call my husband to vent. If I’m having a bad day and my husband calls me out of the blue, there’s always a huge sigh of relief when I see those heart emojis next to the word Hubby. I bet if you call your mom or dad or whoever, after they get off work, I’m sure they would be relieved to have someone to vent to about all of the crazy that took place at work that day.
Sometimes just a 3 minute call just to say you were thinking about them and check in. See how they’re doing, how their day was, how work went. More importantly though, call to say you love them.
Call In-Between Tasks
Between work and kids, daycares and schools, everything just seems to run together. It seems like you never have a chance to sit down and do nothing. What is sleep? What is rest? What on Earth is this “free time” you speak of? I know things get crazy and it seems there truly is no rest for the wicked, or free time for that matter. However, there’s always those boring drives from work to the grocery store… See where I’m going with this yet?
I doubt anyone would mind a quick phone call that starts with the words, “Hey, I only have about 5 minutes to talk, but…” See! That’s only 5 minutes out of your day, doing a mundane task, no time was wasted, nothing had to be shifted around or rescheduled and suddenly Aunt Jane’s day just got 10 times better.
Set a Special Day
If if wasn’t for my planner and my handy dandy calendar, I wouldn’t be able to keep up with anything, and you guys wouldn’t ever hear from me. I schedule everything so much that it’s a wonder I don’t schedule myself bathroom breaks. One thing that may help you keep up with calling up the fam a little more is to set aside one particular day of the week to make a call. Maybe you could use Sundays for calling granny after church. Or Friday night could be for calling mom to chit chat about your week.
Whatever you decide to do, whatever fits your lifestyle, try it. Of course, as with any of my suggestions, you can draw your own ideas. We make our New Years resolutions because we want to keep them, but sometimes it’s hard to do that. I really hope that I am helping someone in someway to keep their resolution. If you have any suggestions for me, I would love to hear from you in the comments!