If you’re anything like me, you have way too much stuff and no where to put everything. Living in a small apartment can do that to you. So, I have created a little routine for myself for every time I feel I need to declutter my space.
I always start in one room and make myself stick to that one room at a time. I have really bad cleaning ADHD so if I start cleaning in one room, I most likely will be on the other end of the house before I know it and no progress has been made. So, I make sure to stick to one room at a time.
Once in the first room, I start in the closet. I tend to use the storage in my closet to hide away all of the clutter that I don’t want to stare at every day. I clean out clothes that I don’t want anymore, shoes that don’t fit, random items that I’ve hoarded but have no use for. I separate everything into piles; trash, donate, and a pile for things that need to be put away in another room.
After closets, I move to nightstands and dressers. In the drawers and on top! My nightstand started out as the perfect place for my bedside essentials but then turned into one really big junk drawer. Cleaning that out makes a world of difference for space to keep actual essentials.
Once you’ve gone into each room and cleared out your biggest hoarding spots, you can sort through your piles. The trash piles are obvi the easiest. Then comes the donate pile. Do I want to give these jeans to my sister-in-law? Would my mom like these shoes? Most of my stuff usually ends up going to friends and family members but a lot of times I take some of my clothes, shoes, and accessories to places like Plato’s Closet to see if I can make any money for them and the leftovers go to GoodWill.
When the time comes to start putting everything back in order, it’s very helpful to get some nice looking bins that you can label on the outside, the major tip here is, don’t use lids. Using lids on the bins makes everything seem like it’s packed up, not organised to be used. I have small bins for my daughters hats, bows, headbands, bibs, and shoes, all along the top shelf of her closet and it’s so easy to look for the label, pull the little bin off the shelf, grab what I need, and put it back.
If you have a lot of things on your walls like pictures and paintings, it may make your space feel a lot smaller than it really is. Try getting some collage frames to put multiple pictures in one space. The more you have hanging on your walls, the more claustrophobic you may feel in your own home.
After everything is said and done, your house should feel a little more airy. It usually only takes that one good cleaning to get everything where you want it. Of course none of it is going to look exactly as you have it forever but it does make putting everything back a lot easier when it gets messy.
Now, when you go out, and you feel like you want to buy something new, I want you to remember this process and think if you have the room for your new item. If you don’t have room for it, what are you willing to get rid of to make room? If you don’t have an answer for either of these questions, maybe you don’t need anything new. You can only have as much stuff as you have room for.